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pro-feminism-anti-extremists:

cummied:

making fun of masculinity is not a problem lmao masculinity and its consequences are the source of homophobia, misogyny, transphobia, classism, racism, ableism, etc., because it teaches that the ONLY way we can progress as a society is to constantly compete with one another

Yes it is a problem. Do you not realize the shit that men have to deal with? Men are constantly pressured to fit a mold of “masculinity”. Their problems are ignored. When women abuse and rape men, it’s treated as a joke. Look at tv shows, movies, books, it’s all making fun of men and calling them stupid and gross and ugly and horrible.
They don’t seek counseling. They don’t get treatment. They are told that they are horrible violent rapists.
Now you can continue to live in your ignorant little bubble, pretending that mocking men isn’t a problem, but it’s there. It’s all around. I really hope you realize this someday.

WHERE ARE MEN TOLD ANY OF THOSE THINGS LMAO HONESTLY…..the only thing i can think of is like makin fun of beefy frat type dudes but other than that??? no? men arent constantly being told that theyre violent rapists and rape and abusive behavior are NORMALIZED and often ROMANTICIZED by the media (50 shades of gray, hbo girls, literally thousands of other things lmao) men are CONSTANTLY referred to as the pinnacle of human existence and this stems from CENTURIES ago when society suddenly deemed that men were better and more efficient than women (holy shit thats a european/western concept!!!!! HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!), men are made fun of for being “girly” or not “manning up” or “crying like a girl” “thats for girls”, being called female names by their friends when they express emotion, not being ALLOWED to express emotion because its TOO FEMININE……do you see where im coming from? how all misandry and the majority of anti-male rhetoric funnels through misogyny and transphobia?? does that make sense to you or